Finding Identity Through Service: How Volunteerism Empowers and Connects Communities

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By Areeba Yasin
March 7, 2025

The sharp clatter of a knife against the cutting board echoed through the mosque as I hurried up the stairs into the kitchen. Volunteers moved in harmony, forming a seamless meal prep assembly line. To my left, a group peeled and chopped vegetables. At the center, hands marinated meat with practiced care. In the corner, rice was measured and placed into cookers. The aroma of spices filled the air, blending with the hum of focused conversation.

I grabbed my apron and headed to the tables, ensuring everything was on schedule. Around me, the kitchen buzzed with overlapping voices. A physics professor shared advice on balancing work and life with a young professional. Nearby, a mother opened up about her divorce, finding comfort in shared experiences and empathetic conversations. In another corner, someone nervously sought tips for their college application essay, met with encouraging nods and suggestions.

As I took it all in, a warmth spread through me. What began as a shared effort to prepare nightly Ramadan dinners had grown into something much larger—an affinity community. Strangers became collaborators. Collaborators became supporters. And through it all, we found a space where we felt truly seen and understood.

The Power of Affinity and Volunteerism

Navigating life’s personal, professional and social challenges can feel isolating, especially without spaces that reflect shared identity. Many of us juggle multiple layers of who we are—cultural, spiritual, professional and personal—that often feel disconnected. Volunteerism within affinity communities helps bring these fragmented parts of our identity into focus.

When we contribute to causes that resonate deeply, we embrace the stories, histories and complexities that shape us. Affinity-based spaces amplify this effect, providing a foundation of shared values and mutual understanding. Hearing someone else’s story and seeing echoes of your own creates a connection that turns isolation into belonging.

Volunteerism as a Catalyst for Growth

Volunteerism serves the community, but it also inspires personal growth. The guidance and mentorship that emerge in these spaces aren’t generic or one-size-fits-all. Instead, they’re shaped by shared experiences and values, making them deeply personal and impactful.

I saw this transformation firsthand during Ramadan dinners. A young professional, initially hesitant and unsure of their abilities, found their voice coordinating logistics for the team. A mother, navigating the pain of a recent divorce, discovered camaraderie and practical advice from others who had walked similar paths. These moments weren’t orchestrated, they unfolded naturally in a space where people felt safe to show up as their true self.

Taking on roles like managing a project or leading a team allows volunteers to uncover their strengths and build confidence. Moreover, they leave with a network of people who understand their story and are ready to support them in other aspects of life.

Grassroots Belonging for Marginalized Communities

For individuals from marginalized identities, the impact of volunteerism runs even deeper. Grassroots efforts provide the kind of personal connections that foster safety and acceptance. In these spaces, people are valued for who they are—not for how well they conform to someone else’s expectations.

Storytelling becomes a powerful tool. Sharing experiences helps individuals make sense of their identities while affirming that their struggles and victories matter. These exchanges remind us that we’re not alone and that our voices carry weight in the collective narrative.

Affinity-based volunteerism also strengthens entire communities. As individuals find belonging, they’re better equipped to uplift others. This ripple effect creates a cycle of empowerment that reinforces the community’s resilience and capacity to address shared challenges.

The Transformative Power of Volunteerism

Volunteerism is a mutual exchange—a chance to give and receive. Through service, we find confidence, purpose, and a deeper connection to ourselves and others.

As I stood in that kitchen, surrounded by the sounds of laughter, chopping knives, and converging conversations, I saw this transformation take shape. Each person brought their story, skills and energy to the table and found a deeper reward: a community that lifted them and renewed their sense of strength.

This is what volunteerism can offer. It creates spaces where people can embrace their identities, build meaningful relationships and become part of something larger than themselves.

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Author: Areeba Yasin is a seasoned professional specializing in impact-driven leadership, nonprofit strategy, and community engagement. She led partnerships and fundraising at SF New Deal, directed communications for congressional campaigns, and advanced civic engagement with the Federal Reserve Bank of SF. She chairs social impact conferences and programs at OPEN Silicon Valley, fostering sustainable change across sectors. Contact email: [email protected] 

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